Cute Holiday Party Ponytails For Natural Hair

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The holiday’s are right around the corner and what a perfect time to go ahead and start planning out your holiday #lewks. There are so many places to gain inspiration, but isn’t hard to actually choose?! We’ve been kind of obsessed–and by kind of, we mean very–with #badass ponytails! Especially those that incorporate some sort of braid, twist or texture. Not only are ponytails a classic style, the fact that many of these ponytails are super low-maintenance and qualify as a protective style – make them a total win win. The colder months can take a toll on our natural hair and that’s why we’ve put together the cutest holiday party ponys for natural hair gals, enjoy!

All Braided Up

Pull your braids up into a gorgeous high pony and wrap the base with a braid to conceal your hair tie.


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DIY Ponies

If you don’t have time to sit down with your stylist, here are a couple ponytails that are super easy to recreate yourself! They require minimal skill and time! Yasss.


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Dolled Up With Sparkly Accessories

A lil sparkle adds a whole lot of glitzy drama.


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Vavavoom Volume

Pull up your tresses into a mega voluminous pony adorned with wire at the base


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Braided Intrigue

Baby braids and bigger cornrows is a total party pony win.


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Cornrow Corsets

Add a little flair to your braids with pretty corset detailing.


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Cornrows Into a Curly Poppin’ Pony

How gorgeous is this mega long pony with super tight cornrows and laid down baby hairs.


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Interested in more holiday hair inspo? Try Issa Rae’s Hairstylist’s Step-By-Step Chain Link Braid Tutorial




Check Out My New Show With PopSugar! Tressed Out

2018 has been a year of undeniable #growth and #manifestation!

I started the #LipstickNCurls platform almost 10 years ago to help us natural + curly girls learn more about our hair, and celebrate the skin we’re in. Little did I know, picking up a camera and figuring it all out would land me with my very own show with Popsugar!


As we’ve ventured on this journey together, we’ve had some amazing hair days — but Lord knows we’ve taken a ton of L’s too! Our tresses have a way of stressing us out, like no job or man could! LOL. But most importantly, our hair shares a story with the world, that can’t fully be expressed with words. Our hair is our crown, and for many — a source of confidence and strength. I’m so thankful to the entire PopSugar team for seeing the beauty in OUR hair tales, and helping make this dream of mine a reality. The pilot episode of my new show #TressedOut is now live, and I can’t wait to hear what you think! YOU helped make this happen, and I’m excited to continue on our #journey together.

Share your thoughts about the show with me here, or on Instagram and Facebook!

HAIR Quality over QUANTITY!

Hey boo thangs! I wanted to first wish you all a happy 2018!!

I have set many goals for this New Year and one of those goals is to be more aware when it comes to my hair! In many ways, we don’t realize how being a product junkie can really take a toll on your wallet. A $20 product here, a $15 product there, after a while you just buy to try and then forget why you even bought the product to begin with!

I am soooo guilty of this and on top of this disjointed purchasing habit, for some reason I always feel like the more expensive a product is, the better it has to be, right?


I remember learning about this concept when I was in my master’s program. In higher education, most parents think that the more a school costs to attend, the more promise and reward it has. Research actually shows that this isn’t the case. Like many things in life, we think if it costs more, there’s more value.

When it came to hair products, I felt the same way for a really long time! It hadn’t dawned on me until recently that after trying out my own DIY treatments to some of the most luxurious hair care brands out there, cost is the LAST thing that determines a hair product’s value.

I’ve been closely working with Herbal Essences for the past year and have been able to really see that  price point doesn’t always matter when it comes to quality products.  Herbal Essences bio:renew collections are my go-to for shampoo & conditioner! Now many of you probably don’t think Herbal Essences is for “our hair type”. Let me change your mind! I have been using the Coconut Milk and line for over a year and my hair has never been more soft and healthy! (That’s with coloring, too!) The shampoos and conditioners in the bio:renew collections are packed with  nutrients your hair will love, with a blend of antioxidants, aloe and sea kelp.

As a curly girl, it can get daunting trying to find what works best for our hair. At such a great price point ($6.99 a bottle!) Herbal Essences has quality products that will leave your hair manageable, soft, and smelling to die for!

Give it a try yourself! If it’s your first time trying the line – my advice is to always grab the conditioner first! ;D I know how we can be when it comes to shampoo, girl. By trying the conditioner, I know you’ll go back for the shampoo!

What are your favorite hair products that give you awesome hair without breaking the bank? Share them with me down below!


XO, Jade

My Hair Transformed My Life #LETLIFEIN

This is a sponsored post by Herbal Essences

Wow! Can you say #Inspired?! Many people don’t connect with their hair, or outer appearance in general, as deeply as the women in this video do. Even for myself – embracing my natural hair sparked my journey of self discovery. With the decision to wear my natural curls as a 19 year old, I had no idea how much that decision would completely change my life.

“Cutting Off My Hair Felt Like I Was Cutting Off That Past Person”

Taking a leap into the journey of self-discovery is not a light-hearted decision. It takes COURAGE to say “I am no longer pretending to be someone YOU want me to be. I choose to figure out who I am and live MY truth.” I find any person who does this as an inspiration because it is seriously one of the hardest things (if not THE hardest thing) to do in life.

“You Can’t Have Your Hair Like This – It’s Too Edgy”

When cultures and social norms control so much of our behaviors and personalities – it’s hard to break away from that security and comfortable place. Fitting in is comfortable. Standing out is hard…but once you see past that fear – you recognize that the happiness and self-love that flows from that is unmatched. It will literally change your life.

“Liberating Myself So Everyone Can Be Free”

Herbal Essences is a brand that wants to encourage and support those of us on a path of self-discovery and those who need courage to take the leap. Creating products that understand and support how transformative hair can be is one of the biggest reasons why I connected with the brand.


Through 2018, I will be partnering with Herbal Essences to not only show you how the products work but also how the hashtag #LetLifeIn can influence so many aspects of your life – hair and beyond.

Check out these two videos to see my experience with the Herbal Essences bio:renew products and stay tuned for more 🙂

It’s More Than “Just Hair” #LetLifeIn

This post is sponsored by Herbal Essences

Over the past few months I have been collaborating with Herbal Essences on their latest “Let Life In” campaign promoting their new collection of hair products withtheir bio:renew technology. In case you missed it, here’s the video I created using the products to style my hair and also my post about my Vacation Beauty Essentials where I featured the bio:renew Coconut Milk Oil Crème and Coconut Oil Curl Defining Mousse.

For me, my hair has always been a huge part of my life. Growing up biracial, people always looked at my skin tone and hair texture as a way to see “what I was.” “I’m human!!” I would think. I started questioning my own race and place in the world because being mixed meant I wasn’t this or that, because I was both at the same time.

My hair was the biggest indicator of my heritage. My curls showed that I was “mixed with something,” and as any middle and high school girl does, I just wanted to fit in!

(Me and my twin sister, Simone – 2007)

I went through phases where I begged my mother to put relaxers in my hair and wore my hair straight all through high school and parts of college.

It wasn’t until I was older that I realized that I didn’t need to change my hair, or myself, to be me. Fitting in turned from an obsession to looking like everyone else, to realizing that “fitting in” meant “follower.” Fitting in meant “average.” I was far from a follower and the furthest thing from average.

I really connected with “Let Life In” message because that’s exactly what I did when I chose to stop forcing myself to fit into a box that really never existed. I decided to let go of society’s expectations of me and let in MY OWN expectations for myself instead.

See, it’s deeper than “just hair.” The acceptance of my natural curls was the tipping point for me in the process of truly finding myself. Rocking my curly hair was the catalyst I needed to say “You know what, I’m not like any of these other kids at school – I’m NOT average…I’m SPECIAL.” From that self-affirming thought process, “LipsticknCurls” was birthed. In the beginning, my platform was just about hair and makeup. Now, it has transformed into a true reflection of my own self-love. I utilize my platform to show others that if I can love myself, so can they.

#LetLifeIn. Let go of whatever is holding you back from being YOU. Whatever that trigger is for you to jump into your passion and life’s purpose, embrace it.

Even if you think its “just hair”…It may be the very thing that changes your life, like it did mine.

XO, Jade

Winter Woes: Dandruff! FLAKES! HELP!

This post is in collaboration with Dove Hair

Dry skin is nothing new during these cold, winter months. Especially when the weather can go from warm to cold and back within the same WEEK!

This drastic change in weather is what usually gets me, because when it’s warm I don’t prepare my skin for the cold. Then before I know it, BAM! I go “Brr!” and dry skin is officially here!

I’ve already shared with you guys my Easy DIY Lip Scrub but along with the lip scrub, you want to make sure you are exfoliating and moisturizing your skin all over your body including your scalp!

This is the only time of year I really have to worry about dandruff/dry scalp. Especially when I am out in the elements and in general, my curly hair can get pretty dried out.

I recently partnered with Dove Hair to try out their new line of anti-dandruff solutions – Dove DermaCare Scalp series, I tried their DermaCare Scalp Invigorating Mint 2in1 to see if my dry scalp #probz can be solved!

What’s great about this product is the 2in1 aspect. The active ingredient, Pyrithione Zinc, assists with getting rid of the dandruff while the refreshing mint effect refreshes the scalp and quenches my thirsty curls.

The DermaCare Scalp Invigorating Mint 2in1 made my hair feel really clean without drying it out! I know many of us curly girls like to stay away from sulfate-shampoos, but when you are dealing with a dry scalp; you need some heavier cleansing products! Using one like the DermaCare Scalp Invigorating Mint 2in1 will give you the necessary cleanse while conditioning at the same time! Win-Win!

If you like the traditional “Shampoo + Conditioner” route, then you should definitely try Dove Hair’s new DermaCare Scalp Dryness & Itch Relief Shampoo and Conditioner in the DermaCare Scalp series! The Dove DermaCare Scalp series (Pure Daily Care 2in1 & Shampoo, DermaCare Scalp Invigorating Mint 2in1 & Shampoo and DermaCare Scalp Dryness & Itch Relief Shampoo and Conditioner) is available at Target, Walmart and your local drugstore for $4.99 each.